Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Nancy Shields: Testament to a special man
I finally braved reading this blog tonight. It's hard to write a tribute when the screen blurs over from tears.
Bravo to James for creating such a precious legacy for Peter's daughters, a testament to a special man. That's what I want to write about -- the guy outside of work, who was more than a fabulous journalist. I met Peter my first weeks at AFP in 1980. I was briefly intimidated until I saw that heart of gold shine through and a quick repartee arose tapping an old US rivalry -- our home states, New York vs. New Jersey, the guy from Brooklyn and the Jersey girl. When news was slow Peter got fidgety.
"You are such a New Yorker! Calm down," I once teased. He stood still, thrust out his arm and shot back with what became a standing joke: "Alright Jersey girl, look at this hand, steady as steel." And he was. He was the Brooklyn Bridge, a solid expanse of optimism ready to help you across troubled waters and keep you focussed on that magical skyline waiting on the other side -- as once he did for me. Years ago we went to see "It's a Beautiful Life," the Italian film set in a Nazi concentration camp. When the lights came on, I was choked up fighting tears but Peter was smiling broadly. "Wasn't that a great film? The love of that father." That was quintessential Peter, the guy -- like the man in the film -- who could distill the best even from tragedy, the "papa poule" who'd do anything for his children, the husband still so in love he softened when Catherine spoke.
When I was in Washington last year, he asked for a private session to learn the new AFP interface. He absorbed all in five minutes then said, "Enough, now let's get down to the real stuff" -- which meant chatting about our respective kids, our lives, our adventures, Peter cracking jokes throughout. You can't talk about Peter without talking about Catherine. Peter was quickly smitten with this young French girl -- and he was unequivocal. He actually talked authorities into breaking down her apartment door when they were dating in New York City. He hadn't heard from her and was certain something horrible had happened -- which it hadn't. "Jeez, Peter, how'd Catherine react?" I asked. "Well," he replied with the ultimate Mackler grin, "I guess you can say she got the message that I really loved her."
I first met Catherine in their old apartment in Montmartre. Peter had invited some Americans for Thanksgiving dinner and there she was, gloriously pregnant with their first child, Camille, joking about all the different dishes, saying: "What do I know, I'm French!" A few years later, I too was pregnant with my first child, searching for a bigger apartment. I remembered theirs -- they were abroad by then -- and tried my luck, knocking on the concierge's door. Twenty-five years later, I'm still in that same Montmartre building where we celebrated that lovely holiday.
Your couple began in New York Catherine, but your family began here, in Montmartre. You know you and the girls are welcome, always, anytime -- for a peek back to where some of your own "beautiful life" began. And it will carry on -- the Brooklyn bridge never lets you down.
-- Nancy Shields
Bravo to James for creating such a precious legacy for Peter's daughters, a testament to a special man. That's what I want to write about -- the guy outside of work, who was more than a fabulous journalist. I met Peter my first weeks at AFP in 1980. I was briefly intimidated until I saw that heart of gold shine through and a quick repartee arose tapping an old US rivalry -- our home states, New York vs. New Jersey, the guy from Brooklyn and the Jersey girl. When news was slow Peter got fidgety.
"You are such a New Yorker! Calm down," I once teased. He stood still, thrust out his arm and shot back with what became a standing joke: "Alright Jersey girl, look at this hand, steady as steel." And he was. He was the Brooklyn Bridge, a solid expanse of optimism ready to help you across troubled waters and keep you focussed on that magical skyline waiting on the other side -- as once he did for me. Years ago we went to see "It's a Beautiful Life," the Italian film set in a Nazi concentration camp. When the lights came on, I was choked up fighting tears but Peter was smiling broadly. "Wasn't that a great film? The love of that father." That was quintessential Peter, the guy -- like the man in the film -- who could distill the best even from tragedy, the "papa poule" who'd do anything for his children, the husband still so in love he softened when Catherine spoke.
When I was in Washington last year, he asked for a private session to learn the new AFP interface. He absorbed all in five minutes then said, "Enough, now let's get down to the real stuff" -- which meant chatting about our respective kids, our lives, our adventures, Peter cracking jokes throughout. You can't talk about Peter without talking about Catherine. Peter was quickly smitten with this young French girl -- and he was unequivocal. He actually talked authorities into breaking down her apartment door when they were dating in New York City. He hadn't heard from her and was certain something horrible had happened -- which it hadn't. "Jeez, Peter, how'd Catherine react?" I asked. "Well," he replied with the ultimate Mackler grin, "I guess you can say she got the message that I really loved her."
I first met Catherine in their old apartment in Montmartre. Peter had invited some Americans for Thanksgiving dinner and there she was, gloriously pregnant with their first child, Camille, joking about all the different dishes, saying: "What do I know, I'm French!" A few years later, I too was pregnant with my first child, searching for a bigger apartment. I remembered theirs -- they were abroad by then -- and tried my luck, knocking on the concierge's door. Twenty-five years later, I'm still in that same Montmartre building where we celebrated that lovely holiday.
Your couple began in New York Catherine, but your family began here, in Montmartre. You know you and the girls are welcome, always, anytime -- for a peek back to where some of your own "beautiful life" began. And it will carry on -- the Brooklyn bridge never lets you down.
-- Nancy Shields