Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Allan Kelly: A friendship cut short

We worked together, Peter and I, on three continents over nigh on 30 years - Asia, Europe and North America --- Had we the time spread out before us I would quite happily add Africa and South America. Sadly we can't.

It was Peter who drew me (and Marie-Therese and four-year-old Christopher) out of a Paris torpor on a night flight to Asia in August, 1984 where like everyone else I was galvanised by his journalistic instincts and "what if " attiitude. Never had exerienced that before. Never looked back. Our daughter Charlotte was born there.

Professional-life apart we became good friends and our wives and families became close. We were neighbours in Hong Kong, where we used their apartment-block swimming pool and tennis courts after Catherine managed to get us passes. In Le Chesnay (Versailles) we lived 100 metres away from each other - other side of the road - and looked after each other's apartments when absent. In Washington we were both in Bethesda. We celebrated together Christmas, New Year, Thanksgiving, Bastille Day and even a Scottish Burns Night.

Peter the journalist was an exceptional case. We all know that . But my abiding memory will always be Peter the family guy with Catherine whom he adored and his two bright and loving daughters Camille and Lauren. Suddenly the Nabib of the Newsroom was the Lamb of the Livingroom as he would sit back, glass of wine in hand, nod his head contentedly and happily do what he was told - unknown for PM in the newsroom. Great compassion also for others - no exceptions. Help not hindrance his motto and he stuck to it faithfully.

Last point - Peter was also an exceptional sportsman - had he chosen I am sure he could have made the grade somewhere - great physique, talented ball skills and as hard as nails mentally. We played at golf - he beat me. We played at tennis - he beat me. I would never have taken him on in a boxing match. But then again knowing Peter he would have likely worked out a way of making me think I had won.

Huge loss, hard to take for us all, but he will always be with us in spirit - thats for sure.
Just hoping that Catherine, Camille and Lauren in time can come to terms with Peter's untimely death as best they can. We hope to see them all in France or the USA whenever they are ready.

--Allan Kelly
AFP Paris